Friday, April 2, 2010

the family man....

The more i think that i am a strong individual and doesn't require any support from any one for anything ,the more i realise that i am no one without my family......u might not need anyone to be a part of your happy moments..but , u certainly need someone to share your pain....who can better fill the place of "someone" except the people who have been watching you, caring you, sharing your joy and sorrows since you have opened your eyes......someone somewhere someday told that after you close the doors of your home . people inside are the ones who will hold your hand everytime you fail to take a step in your journey from dark to light....well you people must be thinking by now that ....oh god ! again a philosopher......but ...hey u ....yeah yeah u...... who is reading this ....these are not philosophy....i too like you hate philosophy and the "er" after that. But these all things are as important as brushing your teeth every morning......perhaps everyone knows all these and i am the last one who is thinking all these....but i realise of importance of having the family besides u after i went home after 2 long years......
I was working with HSBC the in year 2008-2009.It was my first job after my college.....i was excited ...6 months passed by....but as the days were passing i started loosing my interest for the job.....i was not at all aware of the reasons for this. But the work pressure has forced me to give a serious thought for the reasons.The reason i found was my weekend. weekend? No i am serious.yeah it was my weekend. I was not able to use my weekend completely. When u have hell lot of pressure in office , only two days off, and continuously disaster weekend , u would also loose your interest for the job. U need at least one person back home to share what happened to you in the office,your achievement, your failure and all that. Because it gives u relaxation and u can go back to office with a fresh mind.Perhaps that's why the work-life balance is a buzz word around now a days
Now at this moment , when i am about to join my next organization, i have decided that at this time around i will find a hobby to relax, use my weekend fully and most importantly spend quality time with my family. This is my advice to all those who have joined or about to join any organization....guys give yourself some time!afterall it's your life!!!!!!
enough of gyan today see u next time.......

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